Documente online.
Zona de administrare documente. Fisierele tale
Am uitat parola x Creaza cont nou
 HomeExploreaza
upload
Upload




Social Games

games


Social Games



THE TEN SYMBOLS OF THE PACK METHODOLOGY




The methods used in the pack are very simple. They are mostly not difficult and not dangerous. They are, though, harder work for those running them and those participating. They will be for some people a change from what they are used to. (For a description of people's varying reactions to change, see the exercise Change). The following ten symbols explain something about the methods and their rationale.


  1. The lecturer or expert style of telling people what they need to know is not encouraged. Nor is sitting in rows or behind desks. Sitting in circles, so that everyone can see each other with no barriers, is encouraged. Also, breaking up into smaller groups of two, three or five people gives everybody the opportunity to contribute, as well as providing variety.

  1. Any activity or session or workshop or pack cannot provide everything for people. It is, rather, like building blocks. It can add some more blocks to whatever the individual is building (a wall, a house, a palace etc). Some things can be offered which some people will find useful and others may find less so. Some people may reject any kind of blocks which are different shapes to the ones they expected. Others can transform blocks into shapes suitable for their own building.

  1. Although strengths and positive aspects are concentrated on, weaknesses and more negative things should not be ignored. All people can learn new things if they are open to do so. By facing difficulties and problems and less pleasant things about ourselves, we can learn and develop.

  1. Any activity/session/course/pack can stay on a safe, secure level and people will, of course, learn and move forward. If, however, things move beneath the surface a little... if some risks are taken.... if participation and dealing with real issues and feelings are promoted, then difficulties and some unhappiness can occur. The chances are much greater though, that real learning and development will take place at a much higher level.

  1. If the left-side of the brain only is engaged then learning can only possibly reach a certain level. This side is the logical, rational one that controls reading, writing, number, tasks. If, however, the right-side is also engaged (the side of imagination and feelings and creativity) than the whole person is involved and learning can reach a much higher level. So: color, visual, musical and dramatic aspects; emotions and creativity, should be used and stimulated.

  1. The educational theory underlying this work is based on Dale's Cone of Experience. This suggests that people only remember 10 to 20% of what they read or hear. If they see and hear then it approaches 50%. To get higher they need to see, hear, say and do. If they are actively involved they can integrate up to 90%. These methods all involve active participation and experiencing to encourage the greatest learning possible.

  1. Sharing and equality are two of the key elements of the approach. Not the patronizing Adult telling Child; Man telling Woman; North telling South; West telling East or Geneva telling everybody, what to do and how to do. Instead, a belief that everybody can learn from each other, if they are open to receive as well as to give.

  1. Accepting difference, in the world at large and within the group, are stressed. It means accepting people from different cultures and backgrounds; those with different lifestyles and opinions; those who want to be a part of everything and those who sometimes want to withdraw; that people are individuals as well as members of a Society. It means giving quite a lot of responsibility - including for their own learning or lack of it - to people themselves and not trying to lead, control or shape too much.

  1. The hope of this work is that people will feel motivated to do something about it themselves in their own local/personal situation. It can then have a snowball effect. gathering pace and momentum and increasing in size. First comes some awareness and sharing together and then can come some action with solidarity. Like light, weak snowflakes joining together until they form a formidable snowball.

  1. People - whether on a course; in school; at work; in a refugee camp; in a relationship etc - can be treated like one of three vegetables.

The Green Bean: the grower tightly controls its growth, to make it perfect. The grower knows what size, shape, colour and texture it should be to make it marketable. It becomes perfect but at a cost: no freedom.


People treated this way are controlled to ensure that they have the right/best information, skills, etc.


The Mushroom: the grower places them in a dark place (a dungeon, under a box) and leaves them to grow. They might occasionally be given some manure. They grow or they don't.


People treated this way are given nothing. They are ignored, not told anything, except on occasions, something useless.


The Tomato: the grower prepares the ground well; protects them from birds, waters them and cares for their growth, especially at first. After a while some may grow smaller/larger; greener/redder; sweeter; different shapes etc. All are considered worthwhile.


This way of treating people, is to offer some things, especially at first, but then they are free to grow and develop themselves.


The whole ethos of this pack is that it is better to try to treat people like tomatoes, rather than green beans or mushrooms. Neither perfection nor total freedom are the goals. The goal is to offer something, to share and to encourage real awareness and responsibility.





Content

Game

Page

Game

Page

  1. Getting to know each other
  2. Personal shield
  3. Human bingo
  4. The Treasure, the Pirate and the Key
  5. Me and my enemy
  6. My hero
  7. Human sculpture
  8. Identifying needs
  9. Humor and stereotypes
  10. Media and our lives
  11. A child on television
  12. Victims
  13. In every case
  14. Communication without words
  15. Hearing and seeing
  16. Looking through filtered eyes
  17. The Bridge / Derdians
  18. Silent Wall / Floor Discussion

3

4

6

7

9

10

12

13

14

16

18

20

21

23

25

27

28

31

  1. Stereotypes
  2. Blame
  3. Car park
  4. Creatures of conflict
  5. Underlying anger
  6. States of tension
  7. Understanding conflict
  8. Images of war
  9. Boxing match
  10. Scarecrow
  11. Change
  12. Stop! Let's start again!
  13. Taking a stand - Role play
  14. The nine year old carousel
  15. The 5 senses
  16. Analysis and planning
  17. The planning tree
  18. Zoom - A creativity game

32

33

34

36

37

38

39

41

42

43

44

45

46

49

50

51

52

54








1. GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER


Introduction


Any work that asks people to look at topics of a controversial kind or to use imagination and explore feelings can only succeed if people feel comfortable with each other. So, time spent on getting to know each other, even if it seems 'wasted' (not on the topic), is actually vitally important. A variety of activities can be used. Only a few of them are mentioned here.


Activities


First Names

Ask each person in turn to come and write their name on the board or paper and tell something about it - the origin; why they are named it; whether they like it; if they prefer. shorter or longer versions etc.


Talking in Pairs

People are asked to speak with one other person that they don't know, or don't know well, to introduce themselves to each other. They are encouraged to spend five minutes each. It is possible to give more specific questions to talk about.


Afterwards each person in the pair could introduce the other to another couple or to the whole group.


Ball of wool

People stand in a circle. The first person throws a ball of wool to another (anywhere in the circle) saying their first name and where they are from (or any other single thing that you decide on). The next person does the same. The wool should crisscross the circle. A point could be made at the end about the fact that everybody in the group is connected in some way by the wool and their being together right now.


What I would rather do

Sitting in a circle each person says their name and what they would do with their life Oob perhaps) if they could change. For example: 'llaria - Actress'. The next person then introduces their neighbor, saying their own name and what they would rather do. This continues until the last person introduces everybody and then themselves. This is not only a way for people to learn the names of others but to discover something more about them at the same time.


I AM...

Each person is given the 'I AM...' sheet (copy attached) and asked to write largely and clearly three things about themselves that are not obvious. So not, I am female or wear spectacles or have red hair. They can be as revealing or ordinary as each person wants them to be. Then they attach the sheet to their front. Stand. Walk around and introduce themselves to all the other participants by shaking hands; exchanging names; looking at the sheet of the other person and briefly commenting or asking a question. This allows a real personal connection between each person at the start.


Conclusion


The Personal Shield and Human Bingo, also in the pack, can be used as getting to know each other exercises or later as re-connection ones. The value of all of them is that they stress that each individual matters and is being valued for themselves, before anything is done in groups or on the content. This is essential for this work that looks at respecting others and accepting difference. It sends a very clear signal right from the start.












2. PERSONAL SHIELD


Introduction


A short exercise for people in a group who do not know each other very well or who have not seen each other for a while. To encourage easier communication between -group members.


A

B

C

D


MOTTO


Each person draws - or makes - their own shield including the following:


A 3 Favorite things to do in leisure time (drawn);

B 3 Ambitions (drawn);

C 3 People you admire (drawn);

D 3 Places you like or would like to visit (drawn);


Alternatively: A Three depictions of your family, personal life.

B Three depictions of your work or study life.

C Three spare time activities.

D Three places you like or would like to visit.

Other variations are possible.


They also adopt a phrase that's applicable to them which will be their motto.


Once complete, with a partner each person talks about their shield and motto for ten minutes and then listens as their partner explains their's for ten minutes.


They can then be put on the wall of the meeting room for people to look at and guess which belongs to each person or with names on the top.






See picture on next page.









3. HUMAN BINGO


Introduction


A game best used as an energizer, after lunch or a break away from each other. Not advised as an icebreaker. A short, fun inter-active exercise to help re-establish a sense of being in the group.


Process


1. Each person is given a copy of the sheet with the Bingo grid. It is suggested that twelve boxes form the grid, with statements that group members must find the answer to. Therefore, statements like 'is a woman' or 'is wearing a watch' are not appropriate, as these things can (usually) be clearly seen.The statements should cover a variety of topics, suitable for the group you are working with. See enclosed sheet as an example.


2. Ask the group to stand, push chairs away and retain only the Bingo sheet and a pen. The object of the game is to get a full house (all twelve boxes completed) by funding one other person from the group for each box. They should do this by mingling, forming pairs quickly, to ask one question each way. If they get a positive response they put the name of that person in the box and circulate to find the next positive response.


3. 7he winner is the person who fills all twelve boxes first. It is not allowed to put your own name in any box. At the end, have a show of hands to test responses to each statement. The leader of the group should usually join in.


Conclusion


Variations are possible. There can be more boxes or less. The statements can be on a theme. They can be deliberately controversial, provocative or risque. If this latter option is chosen, then you may need to allow more time to de-brief the exercise afterwards. In other words, although the main aim is as a group-bonding exercise, it can also be used as a discussion starter.


Find someone who:



KNOWS WHO BARBARA STANWYCK WAS



IS A CAR-DRIVER


HAS BEEN ON HOLIDAY IN THE LAST MONTH


IS A VEGETARIAN




IS A SPORTS FAN


HAS A PET


LIKES THE SAME MUSIC AS YOU



IS A PARENT


HAS NEVER SMOKED



IS WEARING WHITE UNDERWEAR



LIKES SCIENCE

FICTION FILMS


WEARS CONTACT

LENSES





4. THE TREASURE, THE PIRATE AND THE KEY


Introduction:


Show a picture of a Treasure Chest being locked by a Pirate. Inside, treasure should be seen.


Explain that some treasure is going to be locked inside and that only one key will then be able to open the chest. Show some copies of keys drawn on paper (all with seven different sized teeth). Give each person a copy of the key and tell them that they will have to design a key that will open the chest.


The treasure:

Could be one of the following:

Future generations of young people with an understanding of, and sympathy for, the work of the Red Cross and Red Crescent Movement.

  1. Human contentment.

The key:

In these two cases it would be:

  1. In our dissemination work, the seven main things young people need to be educated about.
  2. The seven main things that a human being needs to be content.

The clues:

Some clues can be written on stickers and placed around the room. These are possible answers. Participants can look at them, or not, as they wish.


The exercise:


  1. Alone, each person comes up with the seven most important things that would unlock the treasure. They must put them in order of priority (largest tooth = top priority).

  1. Small groups should be formed (at least three, preferably not more than seven). Each group is given one different colored copy of the key. They are told to somehow, someway, reach a group consensus of the seven in order of priority.

  1. The keys can then be put on the wall or the seven priorities written on a grid on a large sheet of paper. Each group should be asked:

Was it easy or difficult to reach consensus?

Did everybody get to express their views?

Why did your first choice have top priority?


  1. Either the large group should then be encouraged to discuss and come to a large group decision or a general discussion should take place on the issues that arose.

Conclusion:


The discussion will largely depend in the nature of the treasure and the key that you originally chose. Some points may well apply in every situation:


Is it necessary to have a large group key? Or, are the individual and/or small groups ones enough? Will any key work?!


Is it useful, or not, to prioritize in this way?


Are there cultural differences of perspectives involved?


How did people feel during the various stages of the task?


Can anything be learnt from this exercise about difference and communication as well as the official content?

Under no circumstances should the person running the exercise tell the group at the end that they have the one and only correct key to the treasure. This would rather ruin the point of the whole exercise.


Note:


Depending on the topic and the structure you choose and the group and the level of discussion this exercise can take a short time (45 minutes minimum) or it can provide the material for a 1/2 day session.


An example of the treasure, key and possible clues that could be used follows:


The Treasure A world without violence and war.


The Key The seven main things that individuals can do to achieve this.


The Clues Learn to accept differences;

Gain wider knowledge of people and the world;

Show tolerance and respect;

Develop empathy and understanding for the views and actions of others; Read widely;

Challenge prejudice and discrimination - even in friends and family;

Write to, and lobby, politicians and other leaders;

Actively encourage more equal distribution of the world's resources; Consume less, so that others may consume more;

Learn to deal with our own anger and fear in a constructive way;

Talk about problems rather than hiding from them;

Live non-violently and non-aggressively - be a good example;

Pretend it is the problem of everyone else but you;

Use your own knowledge and skills to convince others in your own life;

Support - by membership, fumce or promoting them - organizations working towards conflict prevention and peace;

Complain, campaign, march and demonstrate if necessary;

Boycott companies and governments which actively encourage violence and war;

Support the death penalty for violent criminals and the assassination of religious and political leaders who encourage violence;

Protect yourself and those you care about - and ignore the chaos and suffering elsewhere;

Feel it as all hopeless and rum to sex or drugs or materialism or career or...


These clues should be placed on slips of paper all around the room. People should be told that, like all clues, some may be helpful and others not. Nobody has to look at them, they can choose whether to look at them, before doing their own key, or after, or not at all.

















5. ME AND MY ENEMY


Introduction


An activity that looks at links between our "enemies" and ourselves and how our view of our "enemies" can tell us a lot about ourselves.


Process


Ask all participants to write down three things that they hate or fear about their enemy. They should try to think of someone or a group of people that they really dislike, either for themselves or for what they represent. If they find it impossible to think in those terms, they can use as an enemy someone or a group of people they were taught to hate or fear as a child. (5 min).


Then participants should draw up a list of things they dislike about themselves. Ask them to find things that they are genuinely uncomfortable about, or would really rather not acknowledge. They then add to the list things that they feel they are not, and would like to be. This list will not be shared with the whole group. (5 min).


In pairs, partners look at their lists, stating the three things that they dislike about their enemy. Ask them to see how many links they can make between the two lists. What do their enemies have in common with themselves? Can they see in them anything they reject in themselves, or anything they would like to be and are not? Make sure that pairs spend time on the lists of both partners - five minutes each. (10 min).


Back in the large group, people are told that they do not have to share all the information they wrote themselves or discussed in pairs. However, open out the discussion by asking questions like:


Did people find links between what they do not accept in themselves and what their enemies represent? Does this tell them anything about themselves or the nature of "enemies"? What can we learn from facing up to our own fears and hates?


It might prove useful to reform the pairs to consider these questions or to ask two pairs to join together to form small groups of four. Some general comments or discussion in the large group should draw out some of the main learning points from the exercise.



Conclusion


Some self-awareness and empathy for others are the main aims of this exercise as is an introduction to the nature of projection.


Carl Jung, an influential psychologist, suggested that we project what we dislike or fear about ourselves onto others and disassociate ourselves from it, thereby creating enemies. It is a tough concept to apply to ourselves because it requires us to see ways in which our enemies and we are the same. A good starting point is to look at what we have in common on a practical level, such as families, lifestyle, expectations, dreams and children. These links can be a good introduction to breaking down some psychological barriers.


Further exercises on the results of projection, in the form of hate and fear and prejudice and discrimination could follow.











6. MY HERO


Introduction


The world of fantasy can be a useful tool in helping young people discover and express their thoughts and feelings. For this exercise, we will use the notion of the 'hero figure' as another tool for helping young people to look at their personal values in more depth.


In order to have a clearer understanding of the nature of the activity, the following remarks should be taken into consideration:


Consciously or unconsciously, almost everyone has one or more 'hero figures';


Hero figures play an important role in the lives of young people since they normally serve as a centre of attraction or as a figure with which to identify and in this way they help young people to adopt a number of values;


It is therefore important to realize that hero figures are not 'neutral', they have a certain image and convey a number of values;


Viewed from a collective dimension, hero figures can also play a very important role in the life of larger communities, such as a racial or ethnic group or a country.


For this reason, a hero figure can be a most important factor in national unity (when it is shared by the whole population of a country), but it can also cause division when it is shared by a particular sector of the society, community or ethnic group and not recognized by other sectors of the population.


This aspect must be carefully taken into account for this exercise. Only the general setting is given here, but it can and should be adapted to local circumstances.


The main aim is to encourage people to realize that other people in the same country, community or city may have other 'heroes' and to understand and respect their choices.


Process


  1. A few volunteers should be asked to give their definition of a hero. It is not important to give a dictionary definition. Some of the following aspects may possibly emerge:

A hero is: a noble person admired for his or her achievements of noble qualities, someone with superhuman qualities, someone who has special talents, someone who has dedicated his or her life to the service of others, etc.


Give out the MY HERO form. State that:


a)           A hero (for the purposes of this exercise) could be a real or fictitious character. It could be a patriot of the country, a religious figure, a popular character from a TV series or commercial, an historical figure, a hero from a book or film, etc;


b)          Each person may have one or several heroes, but for the purpose of the exercise participants are asked to concentrate on only one hero. They should therefore select the hero who is the most important to them.


  1. Each person completes their form individually. There should be no communication between people.

  1. Having completed the form, each person finds a partner and shares their answers with them. It is recommended that each partner gives their answer to question No. 1 before going on to question No. 2 and so on. This will make any comparison easier and keep the dialogue between partners flowing.

People should be ready to answer questions asked by their partner, e.g. At what age did you chose your hero? Have you changed your hero figure many tiines? What were the reasons for your choice of hero figure? etc.


Questions that appear critical or threatening should not be allowed, e.g. Don't you think it is wrong for someone to have a war hero? etc.


  1. Back in the large group ask people to name some of the qualities that their hero has. These can be written on a board. Striking similarities between the qualities of very different heroes, both historical and fictitious characters will probably be seen.

The names of heroes can be shared. If this happens, criticism of the choices should not be allowed.


  1. Comments can be made about the positive and negative qualities of heroes in general and questions raised about their influence. Discussion can also take place about the value of having hero figures for individuals and communities. Points could also be made about the dangers of blindly accepting everything about somebody you admire as opposed to keeping some kind of critical distance from them.

Conclusion


This activity can prove quite thought-provoking for people as it asks them to reveal a great deal about themselves and their personal values. It then links this with the effects of hero identification on groups of people and communities. The power of these personal and shared values can then be seen. Further work on these aspects and the need to recognize and accept different values can follow.


MY HERO


1. if you were asked to select ONE hero, who would you chose?


2. a) What qualities of your hero do you admire the most? Why?


b) Are there any qualities/characteristics of your hero that you dislike? Why?


3. a) Which of your hero's actions gives you the most joy? Why?


b) Which of your hero's actions disappoints you the most? Why?


Has your hero taught you what you consider to be a very valuable lesson as far as your own life is concerned? If YES, briefly describe the lesson.



















7. HUMAN SCULPTURE


Introduction


An inter-active activity to demonstrate cooperation and acceptance of difference. This is often the hidden aim. The introduction can state this or it can be billed as a warm-up activity or one on a completely different topic.


Process


  1. Ask people to form groups of three or four. Then ask them to demonstrate, by forming a human sculpture, something on the topic you give them. The topic can be:

the benefit of cooperation

accepting the difference of others

how this group or class works

conflict

nightlife in the area

cats


(Clearly almost any topic can be chosen, depending on the group, situation and your aim).


  1. The group are told they cannot talk at all during the exercise. They are given a set amount of time and told they will then present their sculpture to all the other groups. Only after this will talking be allowed.

  1. One person in each group is given a 'disability' by the leader. They must keep their hand behind their back or in their pocket. Alternatively they must stand on one leg or stay bent over. Other variations are possible. No reasons are given for this, however they must stay this way until the end of the presentations.

  1. After each group has made their presentation, allow each group some time to talk about what they achieved, how they felt about it and what, if anything, they learnt from it.

  1. Open this out to a general discussion. Some specific questions should also be posed:

    • What did it feel like working without words?

    • How well did the group work together?

    • What helped or hindered this working together?

    • How did the individual wish the imposed 'disability' feel?

    • How did the group react to this person and how did they feel about them?

    • What did you learn about: human sculptures; the topic you were asked to sculpt; cooperation; difference?

(Many other questions could be posed depending on the group, the time and the nature of your work. For larger groups, or even for smaller ones, these questions could be raised with small groups first before the large group discussion).


Conclusion


Some difficult issues could arise during this exercise and time will need to be allowed to look at them properly. The leader will probably need to make choices about which questions to focus on.






8. Identifying needs


Assessing community needs exercise


Purpose

This exercise is designed to help us see how the priorities set by professional workers and newcomers to a community are not always those that the community members would choose.


Questionnaire

Priorities of Mathari Valley People


The Nairobi City Council recently made a survey of over 2,000 families in Matliari Valley. They asked the people what problems the people saw as most important in their lives in the valley. They then asked the people to rank those problems in order of priority.


Instructions:


Rank in order of what you think the people in the Valley answered as their first, second, third priorities etc. Place a number 1 by the one you think they ranked first, a number 2 by the one you think they ranked second, etc. up to 10.


Write your numbers in the left hand column.


Your Ranking:


----------- Land

----------- Clean water

----------- Shelter

----------- Clothing

----------- School Fees

----------- Money to expand business

----------- Educational facilities

----------- Food.

----------- Better standard of housing

----------- Sanitation


Taken from "Health Care Together" by Mary Johnson and Susan Rifkin (1987), published by Macmillan Publishers, London.




















9. HUMOUR AND STEREOTYPES


Introduction


A few activities to encourage people to consider the nature and power of humor and to look at the necessity and danger of humorous stereotypes.


Process


  1. In small groups, investigate some of the following:

- What makes each of us laugh/smile?

- Are there many different things?

- Does it depend on mood? situation? company?

- Do we laugh at things we are afraid of or don't know anything about?

- Is it easy/difficult to make others laugh?

- How do you make others laugh?


  1. Ask each group to prepare something for the other groups. The aim is to make them laugh. They may prepare a story, a drawing, a drama, anything as long as it makes people laugh. After some planning time, give each group the opportunity to make the others laugh.

Following this, have a discussion on how each group made decisions about what to do and whether they were successful. Get people to consider what factors they took into account, for example, type of audience, how well they know each other, etc.


  1. Ask people to form pairs. Firstly alone, using a sheet of paper, get them to think of a time when they found something really funny. Ask them to analyze it. Why they found it funny? What was it actually about? They should then turn the paper over and think of a time when they didn't find something funny at all, but they still laughed or smiled or joined in with the joke. This time they should analyze: why didn't they find it funny? why did they still laugh/smile? who else was there? Encourage people to be honest with this, even if it quite difficult. (Many people may well claim at first not to be able to think of any situation like this. If they cannot, ask them to think of a situation where they found something funny and others clearly didn't). They should then share these two situations with their partner and discuss them a little further.

Back in the large group, ask people not to share the situations but any general reflections on what this showed about humor.


  1. Many jokes and people's abilities to find things humorous depend on knowing the person or understanding the situation or belonging to a certain group of people. Much humor makes little sense to those who are not 'in' on them.

In small groups, ask people to do the following:


Firstly, consider:


What are in jokes? How people not 'in' react to them?


What do the mass media have to do to make us laugh at the same time at the same thing?

(Consider studio audiences, canned laughter, stereotypes, etc.)


Secondly, ask people to watch some TV entertainment programs or listen to radio DJ's. Read some cartoons. Look at advertisements. Then list some of the stereotypes that are frequently used.


Thirdly, ask groups to consider that stereotypes must be instantly recognizable and allow for no individual differences. Think about hospital nurses, upper class women, radical trade union leaders,. gay men and lesbians or any other groups that you have thought of. Then encourage them to discuss the following:



How real are the stereotypes?

Why do you think that they started?

Why are stereotypes sometimes very useful?

How would you feel if you were a member of the group talked about in this way? Or, if a member of your family was?

How would you be affected if you didn't know anyone who was a member of that group?

How might you react if you met or heard of someone in that group after years of listening to the stereotype?

Why are some groups singled out for more jokes than others?

Why is it more worrying when jokes are directed at a whole community, rather than rich people or those doing a specific job, like politicians?


Fourthly, ask groups to choose one group who are shown in a fairly negative, stereotypical way. Ask them to collect examples of these stereotypes together. They should consider how these stereotypes happened. They should think about how members of this group might feel about it. They could even ask members of the group or read things from members of the group to see how they feel. They could think about whether anything could, or should, be done to try to alter the stereotype.


After some time working on this in small groups they should present/demonstrate their findings to the large group.


Some discussion should take place comparing the types of stereotypes, and reactions to them, as well as possible strategies for changing them.


Conclusion


One or all of these activities could be used. Their purpose is to get people to think a little bit more about whether some 'harmless fun' really is so harmless if it is directed at certain individuals or groups. It also highlights how humor can be used as a propaganda weapon. Becoming conscious of it, and trying to minimize its harmful effects, is something very practical that all individuals can do. Any work on vulnerable groups, respecting difference and conflict can benefit from some attention to humor.

























10. THE MEDIA AND OUR LIVES


Mass Media: Means (especially newspapers, radio, television) of imparting information to, influencing the ideas of, enormous number of people. Oxford Dictionary


There is no doubting the power and the influence of the media on most of our lives. Many of us live in a media-saturated society. From the moment we wake, our day is penetrated by pictures and sounds from the audio-visual media. At night our dreams are touched by the images of the day.


It has been suggested that the average adult of some countries spends approximately 75 hours per week in contact with the mass media, however casual that consumption may be - a glance at a poster or a half heard radio program. Many governments have statistics showing that children spend more time with the mass media than they do in the classroom. Only sleep takes up more time.


You and the Media


Keep a diary for one week of your own contact with the media.


Note the type of media and the length of time you were in contact with it. (Remember you could have contact with several types of media at the same time).


At the end of the week discuss in groups the type and length of media consumption.


Design a bar graph illustrating the results.


As we spend so much time in contact with the media, it 'naturally' provides us all with a potent source of information, values, pleasure and meaning. This helps shape our attitude to ourselves and the world in which we live.


"The mass media do not determine attitudes but they do -structure and select information we may use on which to base decisions about what attitude is appropriate... (this) means that it tends to maintain, cultivate and exploit beliefs and attitudes already held, rather than undermine or alter existing perceptions."

Gajeara Venna,

The Black and White Media Book


The selection procedures used by the media to determine what we read, hear and see are critical to our own understanding of the reality around us.


The family album


In pairs or small groups:

Look at your own, or your family's photo album.

Talk about some of the events shown with your partner or group.


Consider:

What are the photos of ? (Parties, marriages and holidays?) How many are there of fights, everyday drudgery, divorces, funerals, bad times?


We are very selective in what we choose to take a photo of initially.

We then select what to put in the album or on display.


What you are likely to take pictures of - where and when.

Which you choose to display or put in an album.

Which you reject - and why.

For a few photos, try to remember what happened before and after the photo-was taken.

Is the album a 'true' record? Does it reflect reality?

Why do we rarely keep a record of unpleasantness?

To a person that did not know us, how might our selection process for our album affect the way we are viewed?


Our own photography is probably conservative and follows a set pattern. The kind used by the mass media is no less so. All the visual images we see in the media have been chosen to express a particular point of view and to conform to set patterns. Just as we don't display the photo where we were caught picking our nose, so the media carefully selects the visual images it provides us with. These selection processes will affect the opinions of those receiving the images. It will influence our opinions about: politics, possessions, wealth and poverty, strikes, demonstrations, the world generally.


The power of visual images and of the selection processes used by the media will be better understood by attempting some of the following activities:


Analysis


Using a photograph, slide, or still, start by showing a small section of it. Then increase to a larger section and finally the whole of it.


The group should call out what they see and must decide whether they are describing the image (objective) or interpreting it (subjective).


Individuals or groups could prepare their own photographs for analysis. This exercise indicates how photographs can be % used', how responses to images have been 'learned' collectively and how they might be varied


Photo analysis


Each person has a photograph and a piece of paper. They write a brief comment about the image, fold the paper and pass it on. When all the group have commented the group should discuss their responses and the reasons for making them, noting similarities and differences.


Captioning


"The photograph of a couple locked in embrace may be captioned Love or it may be captioned Rape". Harold Evans


Using a selection of photographs students should write a caption to accompany the image. The photograph and text should then be passed to another member of the group who is asked to write a caption interpreting the image from a different point of view.

























11. A CHIILD ON TELEVISION


Introduction


An activity showing the power of the selection of images and words for television. Allows consideration of some practical, creative and ethical issues about the Media. It is also about the importance of education and upbringing in early childhood.


Process


Start either by introducing the topic of the child or by the method of television story-boarding (a plan of the words, images and timing of a television broadcast).


1. The child


"Childhood is a time of innocence"

"Give me a child until he is seven and I'll create the Man"


Say or give out these old quotations about children, (You can explain that it is about women also, but in older times they were not mentioned). Say that they may seem contradictory to some people and complementary to others.


Split people in small groups of, perhaps, four or five. Give some groups the Six Statements and some the Seven Statements. Ask them not to talk with, or show their statements to, other groups.


Six Statements


A child who is criticized - learns to condemn

A child who is punished - learns to fight

A child who is insulted - learned to be shy A child who experiences shame - learns to feel guilt

A child who is abused - learns self-loathing

A child who sees loved ones killed - learns to fear and hate


Seven Statements


A child who meets tolerance - learns patience

A child who is encouraged - learns confidence

A child who experiences security - learns trust

A child who experiences fair play - teams justice

A child who feels friendship - ]cams to show kindness

A child who is accepted - learns self respect

A child who receives care and love - learns to love


Ask each group to discuss the meaning of their statements and what they think about them.


2. Television story-boarding


Explain that story-boarding is a planning grid. People working on a television program or advertisement use storyboards to organize themselves. (Show them the Picture, Time and Sound diagrams). The storyboard shows what pictures the viewer will see at any point during the program or advert and the words and sound effects that will go with the images. A useful tip is that it takes about 1 second to say 3 words. Images and sounds should match.


3. The task


Explain that each group needs to create a two minute news item, advertisement or small feature for television about their six or seven statements by story-boarding. They can either have many copies of the Picture, Time and Sound diagrams from you or create their own. They need to sketch the images, estimate the number of seconds and write in any words or sound effects.


The following points need to be discussed:


What do you want to communicate with the audience?

What are the three main points you want to make?

How are you going to explain what is happening?

Are there any images or words you cannot or will not use?

How are you going ten keep your audience interested?

How can you compete with an action-adventure film, a football match or a prize-winning show?


Give a time limit for the group to discuss and prepare. An hour or an hour and a half at least. Explain that at the end the groups will display their storyboards for others to see and will give other groups a brief description.


4. The show


Put all the sequences on the wall. Ask people to look at the storyboards of all other groups. They should try to notice if there are similarities and/or differences. They should see if each one makes an impression on them. After some time for this, ask people if there are any questions they have for a certain group. What something means? Why they chose it? (Ensure that questions are directed at all groups, not just one or two). Ask if differences can be seen between the groups who had the six statements and those that had the seven? Consider why this might be. You may need to ask someone from each group to read the six and seven.


Ask each group whether they were able to agree on their storyboard easily and about their discussion on which images and sounds could be used and how they were going to interest their audience in this topic.


There can then be a broader discussion on whether any of these sequences would be likely to be broadcast; the difficulty of interesting people in topics like this; the need for television to be entertaining and whether it is possible to remain true to your principles and to compromise with the reality of the Media.


5. Variations


You could make a competition between the groups. This would clearly reflect the reality of the media. The best one being judged on how it grabs and holds the interest of the viewers. A small prize, of some kind, could be offered.


Such an exercise can be done with any topic. Refugees. Gypsies. Disaster relief. Famine. In each case some visual or verbal input needs to introduce the topic.


Instead of television story-boarding, a front-page of a newspaper could be laid out or a cassette recording of a two-minute radio spot made. The structure of the exercise would be the same.

Conclusion


Humanitarian work needs the Media and vice versa. The relationship between the two is not always easy because they have very different goals and practices. Some understanding of this reality can prove useful and illuminating.


















12. VICTIMS


Introduction


An exercise exploring the ways of the Media, and people's reactions to it, especially in relation to vulnerable groups.


Process


Have a large and varied collection of newspapers and magazines and/or ask participants to gather some together. Ensure that some of them have some clear reference to your chosen topic. Scissors, tape, glue, colored paper, crayons and pens should also be available.


Split people into small groups, with four to six in each. Give each group a large sheet of paper. Ask them to create a collage of words and images that show how the Media portray "victims". It might be a good idea to ask people to start with what they understand by the word first. It could be victims of disaster or conflict or circumstance. In groups they should look at, and think about, how the Media shows the "victims".


As well as creating the collage, they should discuss their reactions to the word "victims" and the media attitude towards "victims' and why this might be so.


After a set amount of time, maybe thirty minutes, ask each group to show and explain their collage to everyone else.


Open up a general discussion by asking how people reacted to the task, the word, the media messages and others in their group. Encourage some analysis of the Media: its ways of working; its views of vulnerable groups; its reasons for being as it is; how influential and powerful it is; how it could be changed or modified. Some strong feelings may also be stirred up. Allow time for them to be expressed but also time for some analysis and positive as well as negative aspects to be considered.



Conclusion


This is a deliberately provocative exercise to stir up some thoughts and feelings about the influence of the Media on people and the world. It also provokes people to consider their own attitudes - and those of Society in general - towards vulnerable groups. Similarly provocative variations would be to change the title to: vulnerable groups or helping the needy. More specific, and perhaps less controversial, would be to have the name of a specific group as the title or disasters or conflict or, even, the Red Cross.























13. IN EVERY CASE


Introduction


An activity about basic human rights. which asks whether there are ways of treating people which are always wrong, no matter what the situation..


Process


  1. People should be split into small groups of four or five and given three cards marked:

in some cases

in most cases

in every case


They should be placed next to each other with plenty of space underneath them to place other cards.


  1. Each group should be given a set of cards with some statements written on them. Some suggestions follow. Six or eight for each group. They should be shuffled and placed facing down. In turn they should be turned over and the group should discuss where to place them. They then put them underneath one of the three headings.

  1. Once completed - or when a certain amount of time has passed - give each group member two blank cards. Ask them now to write two of their own statements about topics that could be categorized in this way. They should place them face down and shuffle. They are then read out, discussed and classified as before.

  1. Once completed - or again, when a certain amount of time has passed - ask the groups to leave their statements on view. They should all move round to look at a neighboring group's responses. Within their group they can discuss whether there are any things they would not agree with. They should not move any of this new group's cards, but make a note of any points they want to question.

  1. If there are only two or three groups, each group can in turn ask the other any questions they have. The group who placed the cards should explain their thinking. The questioning group can then give their viewpoint.

(If more than four groups, then pair up groups for this part of the exercise).


  1. Allow time for groups to look at the responses of remaining groups. However, there will be no discussion on this.

  1. Back in original places, some questions can be asked and comments made. Groups could be asked:

    • Was it easy or difficult to reach group agreement?
    • Did they feel that each group member had an equal amount of speaking time?
    • What does this have to say about what are essential (i.e. in every circumstance for every person) basic human rights?
    • Does there seem to be agreement about what should be a right in every case?
    • Does this teach anything about the task of defining and promoting human rights?

  1. Variations are possible. People could be asked to do their own cards from the beginning, for example.

Conclusion


This activity could be used as an introductory one to the theme of human rights. Clearly, the exercise could be used in similar ways about many other topics also. Its value is in encouraging people to think and talk about an issue in an active, participatory manner.





Possible Statements


Killing is wrong

People should be allowed to criticize the government

Torture is wrong.

People should be allowed to talk to and meet anyone they wish.

It is wrong to keep someone as a slave.

It is wrong to force a person to work.

After a certain age people should be able to marry or live with anyone they wish

A person accused of crime should be tried by someone who has nothing to do with the case.

People should be allowed to say or write what they wish.

People should be allowed to travel and leave their country if they wish.

All people should be treated equally. It should not depend on such things as their sex, appearance or the country that they are from.

Private letters and telephone calls should not be intercepted.

People in prison should be told why they are being held.

People should be allowed to have, or not have, whatever religious beliefs they wish.












































14. COMMUNICATION WITHOUT WORDS


Introduction


Several exercises exist which can help people to consider some of the ways of communicating without words. Non-verbal communication can be powerful at any time. It becomes all the more important when working in an inter-cultural or multi-cultural context. Also, when working with those for whom language is difficult. Some people are very aware of it and for others it is quite unconscious. It can be a real revelation for some people to see the usefulness and power of such communication.


Activities


1. Birthday line


Ask people to stand. They are then told to form a line, from one end of the room to the other, based on their birthday. At one end is January and the other December. They have to do this without speaking in any language. (Variations can be: first letter of first name, place of birth or living place: north to south, etc).


2. Star sign act


People should form groups based on their astrological sign. They are given a set amount of time - maybe three to five minutes - to prepare a ten to twenty second demonstration of some characteristic of their sign. They must prepare without words and demonstrate without words also. (Variations are possible: people from the same region perhaps).


3. Walking together


Ask each person to find a partner. Then ask them to stand at opposite sides of the room from each other. They should concentrate on their partner and not on any other people. They should not speak. Tell them to walk towards each other and stop at a point that feels comfortable in relation to each other. Ask them to stay in that position for 15 seconds to see how it feels. Then ask them to take one step back from that position. They should stand for 15 more seconds to see how that feels. Then ask them to move forward to where they were before and then take another step closer to each other. Stand in that position for 15 seconds and see how it feels. Then ask them to sit with their partner and discuss what it felt like; if it was comfortable or not and anything else that they noticed. Do not ask too many other questions at this time.


After some time, come back together as a large- group and ask for any reflections. Many issues will probably be raised, if not you may like to raise them. For example:


Were both people comfortable with the first position?

Did height, gender, friendship, culture affect the feelings?

What was the eye contact and body language like?


You should then make some comments based on what you observed. Further discussion can take place on what has been learned about eye contact, body language, individual and cultural differences and whether one can observe and interpret correctly.


4. The Three Minute Story


Ask people to form pairs. One person in each pair is person A and the other, person B. Explain that you will give a card to each person, they should read it but not show or tell their partner. They will then do what is on the card. Give person A card 1 and person B card 2.









CARD A



CARD B







1.

Please talk for the next three minutes to your partner about your most recent holiday.







2.

While your partner speaks to you for the next three minutes, please show non-verbally (without speaking) these two things:


that you like them very much


and


that you are sad


(About half the time showing each one)






3.

Please talk to your partner for the next three minutes about a film, or a book, that you like very much.






4.

While your partner speaks to you for the next three minutes, please show non-verbally (without speaking) these two things:


Nervousness


And


Anger


(About half the time showing each one)



At the end of the three minutes ask people to stop and talk with each other about how they both felt and whether they could work out what was happening. Then give person A card 4 and person B card 3, so that the positions are reversed. Follow the

same procedure. Three minutes, then discussion.


At the end, back in the large group, ask for any general reflections and comments. Some points to draw out include:


  • Is it easy or difficult to correctly see how another person is feeling?
  • Can things be expressed non-verbally, without words?
  • Does gender or culture affect any of these things?
  • Can people learn to be more observant of non-verbal signals or is it intuitive?

Some people may well still be stuck with some of the feelings they had during the exercise, so you should get people to de-role (talk about something from their own life; move around and sit in a different place; do a light-hearted exercise and/or talk to a partner about these feelings to clear them).


These cards can, of course, be changed. However less dm three minutes is not advised as real feelings cannot then arise.


Conclusion


These are just four exercises amongst many on communication without words. They can raise many thoughts on the usefulness - and limitations - of this form of communication. They do highlight the impact that non-verbal signals have on people and therefore the importance of striving to understand them.





15. HEARING AND SEEING


Introduction


An exercise designed to consider how much we really see of another person or hear from them and how much we are influenced by our own preconceptions and preoccupations.


Process


Do not alert people at the start to the nature of the exercise or they will not behave in a natural way.


Ask people to form pairs. Ask each person in turn to talk for TWO minutes, without interruption, about the same topic. You should chose the topic and tell them what it will be. It could be: your last holiday; what your journey was like today; your favorite film; refugees; drugs, your childhood etc.


Ask each pair to sit away from other people. Time the exercise. Tell them when two minutes has passed and when to finish after four minutes.


At the end, ask them to turn back to back and give them the Observation Sheet. Allow time to complete the form. Do not allow people to turn around or to talk.


Ask people to stop writing and either stay back to back and tell each other how they have answered each question or turn and face each other and do the same. (No further writing is allowed). They can correct some things and discuss.


Back in the large group ask some questions:


How many correct answers did most people get?

Were some things generally easier for people to see than others?

Do they think they noticed more or less than they usually do this time?

If so, why might that have been?

Was it easy to talk for two minutes without interruption?

Was it easy to listen for that long without interrupting?

What does the exercise say about the value of real listening and real seeing? What conclusions about personal inter-actions could be make?


Conclusion


This exercise is a good introduction to any work on conflict or communication or any other topic relating to people and inter-actions. In a simple way it makes some very strong points about what we see and hear and what we don't and why that might be so.




















Hearing and Seeing

Observation exercise


What did I observe when listening to my partner?


Fill in the answers to the following questions, do not turn around and look at your partner, do this on your own.


What color was your partners hair?



What length was his/her hair?



Did you notice anything about what your partner did with his/her hands? If yes, say what.



What color were their eyes?



What kind of shoes were they wearing?



What color were their socks?



How were they sitting? Did they change position? If so, describe the change as well as how they were sitting.



Describe any jewellery your partner was wearing.



Did you notice any facial mannerisms?




Describe the tone of voice and anything you noticed about their use of voice.












16. LOOKING THROUGH FILTERED EYES


Introduction


An activity to get people thinking about and questioning some of their own perceptions.


Process


Explain that the purpose of the activity is to draw a mental map which will generate discussion about why we have different impressions of places.


Split into small groups of three or four who should complete the task together.


Depending on the-group, ask each group to draw a map from memory of:


a)          a named country in the world;


b)          the area within a kilometer of the room you are in;


c)          the country you are in;


d)          a named place that people have some knowledge of.



All groups should be given the same task, not different maps. You may choose to show them an example, like the one enclosed here or one of your own making.


Once completed, get groups to circulate to look at the maps of other groups. They should then discuss what differences they noticed and why there were such differences.


Back in the large group, use the experience of doing these drawing to discuss why different people see the same things differently. Some of the possible reasons are:


experience

family

background

culture

beliefs

priorities

personality

age

media etc..


Then it may be possible to ask each person to draw an individual pair of glasses on large sheets of paper. Within the lenses of the glasses they should write what affects their own point of view. This acknowledges the fact that we each have our own perceptions. Our eyes are our filter through which we see the world.


Variations are possible, for example, instead of doing the maps in groups, they could be done individually and then shared in small groups.


Conclusion


This exercise can be used as an introductory one or after doing some other work on images and perceptions. It could also be used on its own as a trigger for people to consider some of the ways in which they view the world.






17. THE BRIDGE / DERDIANS


Introduction


A complex and interesting exercise that asks people to do a practical activity in groups to explore some issues of communication and group dynamics.


Process


1. The Building:


Ninety minutes is needed for the exercise and sixty minutes for the feedback and discussion. One person should lead. People are split into two teams, preferably four to seven people in each. Volunteers are asked for, to be observers, one or two in each team. Two separate rooms are needed and a third neutral place. Each team or room is equipped with:


One ruler

One pair of scissors

One roll of tape

One stick of glue

Several sheets of White Paper

Several small sheets of card (varied thickness and colors)

An old newspaper

Some colored crayons or pencils

Two or three buttons (or other round objects)

A pencil

A small piece of colored material


Just before giving the instructions, explain that there is no right or wrong; good or bad way of doing this and that people will not be judged. The observers will be there to observe how the task is completed and how people inter-act. Explain the rules.


The rules


The players


You will work in two different teams. Together you must build one bridge, each team will build one half of it. At the end of the exercise we will put the two halves together to make the bridge.


The two teams will work in two separate rooms and will not see each other.


Contacts between the two teams can be made by a delegate of each team. The two delegates will meet in a neutral place for 3 minutes maximum. They can have 3 meetings in total.


The two halves of the bridge must meet in the middle of the bridge span.


The bridge span must be at least 15 cm long. When the two halves are put together it will not be possible to use glue or any kind of material to stick them together.


The quality of the bridge will be judged according to its stability, beauty and creativity. It shall hold a pencil laid in the middle.


You can only use the materials which are on your table.


You can not put questions to the observers or the leaders of the exercise.


You have 90 minutes to do this exercise.


When a delegate wants to meet another he/she must announce him/herself by knocking at the door or at the wall of the other team or by asking the leader of the exercise to arrange the meeting. Only the leader may attend this meeting. It should be strictly timed.


The observers


You will observe one team.


You shall not talk to the participants or anyone else or answer any questions they may put to you.


It is recommended that you take notes.


Observe in particular the following:


- How did the group start its work?


- Who took the initiative?


- How was the delegate chosen?


- How does the group manage time? Who keeps track of the watch?


- Is there a facilitator in the group, or someone who moderates the discussion,

proposes solutions or consensus?


- How are the tasks shared?


- Is everybody doing something? Are there people who are not interested or have

nothing to do/to say?


At the end of the ninety minutes announce that the Bridge will be put together, in the neutral place, in two minutes. Put it together and test with a pencil. A thirty minute break is recommended before proceeding to the feedback and discussion.


2. The Feedback:


At the start stress again that judgments of good/bad and right/wrong are not the aim. This feedback needs to be fairly tightly structured. Start by asking one team to speak, then their observers, then the other team and observers. Finally open to a broader discussion. The questions should follow this kind of pattern:


Individuals in each team


How did it feel? (Being asked to do; Doing; Working together)


Do you think you were a good team?


Did you each share?


Did someone lead?


Did anyone withdraw? Say nothing?


Did different people have different roles? and tasks?


Who started things?


How was the delegate chosen?


Did anybody watch time?


Who proposed solutions/compromises?


Was anybody bored or disinterested?


Did you focus on task all the time or ever talk about relationships?


Was communication good? Were there arguments?


Were you pleased with the end result?


Was it a success? Why, do you think?


Observers


How did you feel as observers?


What did you observe about group dynamics, communication, working as a team etc?


Eye contact? Body language?


Did you try to be involved and a part of things even though you couldn't speak?


General


How much time was spent planning?


How much time was spent constructing/doing?


How much time was spent evaluating/assessing?


Have you learnt anything about:


yourself?


others in your group?


group dynamics?


exercises like this?


being observed?


Conclusion


Encouraging people to be honest about their reactions to the exercise and to others will not only make the feedback more interesting but will bring to life the whole point of the activity. about the diversity of individual needs and skills and reactions and how these can be blended together or not - in a team, a group or a society. Different people have different roles. Some may become leaders, others followers, others outsiders. These may change over a period of time. Really accepting difference, even if it is difficult is vital in the exercise, but also in Society at large.


Variations are possible. The task can be different. With larger groups, thirty maybe, two groups should be formed with a leader for each and then two teams created within each group. More than seven working as a team and two observing is not recommended. The time should not be shortened, otherwise it becomes just a task and the relationships and group dynamics cannot develop.


Much may well be stirred up by this exercise, providing people with motivation to explore some of the issues further.



18. SILENT WALL OR FLOOR DISCUSSION



Introduction


Text Box:  A way of getting a group to consider some issues by interacting with each other without talking. This exercise can be especially helpful for people who take some time to consider their reactions or for whom speaking in a large group is difficult. It can be a very useful introductory exercise to a topic.


Task


Everybody sits in a U-form in front of the paper on the wall or in a circle around the paper on the floor. An image or cartoon or photograph is placed in the center. People are told to react to it in any way they wish to.


After the explanation everybody is silent. If you want to express an opinion you have to do this in writing. All your ideas, opinions, etc. have to be put on paper. You can also respond to something that has been written by somebody else. You can give counter-arguments, make links, ask questions etc.


It is alright if two or more people are writing at the same time. The ground rule is: Nobody speaks!


Material


- large pieces of cardboard or paper;

- thick markers or pens;

- paper tape;

- slogan, photograph, cartoon or some other stimulus to discussion.


Task of facilitator


- Explain the aim and the method;

- Indicate that the discussion ends after ten minutes or at the moment that nobody is writing any more;

- After the silent session it is possible to continue by a verbal discussion;

- Put the image/cartoon/quotation in the center.

For example: child soldier photograph or integration cartoon


Conclusion


Some questions can be posed, and a verbal discussion could take place, afterwards. These can explore the topic of the session and people's thoughts and feelings about it and/or their thoughts and feelings about the silent discussion approach.










19. STEREOTYPES


Introduction


An activity designed to allow people to consider the power and influence of stereotypes as well as their legitimacy. Also to consider something of the feelings minority and majority groupings may have in relation to these stereotypes.


Process


  1. The group should be asked to take a sheet of paper each and divide it into four squares.

Participants are then asked to write down four items relating to Cultural Differences, Stereotypes and Minorities.


a.        Stereotypes of 'majority' people(s) in your home country;


b.       Stereotypes of Minorities in your home country;


c.        A time where you felt as a minority and how did it make you feel;


d.       A time when you felt like a majority (and there were minorities present) and how did that make you feel.


  1. Ask people to form small working groups of 3 or 4 people to share and discuss their answers to these questions. Suggest that maybe each person should do part a) first, then part b) etc, to encourage a flow of opinions in the group. People can ask further questions of each other if they wish.

  1. Back in the large group some general feedback can be taken and/or a few questions could be posed. For example:

- What might be the root of stereotypes?


- Do they have any validity?


- What are the positive and negative results of them?


- Can minorities and majorities learn anything from the way the other group feels?


- How can communication between groups be improved?


Conclusion


Some further investigation of the power of stereotypes and the feelings of a minority group can follow, perhaps focusing specifically on one minority group as an example. It is important to draw out positive aspects and to develop ideas for improvements as well as looking at the difficulties and problems.














20. BLAME


Two participative exercises, that link together, exploring the consequences of blaming others.


Introduction


An example, perhaps from a family, school or youth group situation, could be given to introduce the topic of blame. This may involve blaming an individual continually, or a group of people repeatedly, for things that go wrong.


Activity 1: The silent Act


Small groups - of 3 to 5 people - should be formed. Each group is asked to prepare a short presentation - or act - to everyone else of a situation from ordinary life that shows something of a person or group of people being blamed unfairly. They will have to give a 1-2 minute presentation with no talking. They, therefore, must act out the situation clearly enough for people to see what is happening. Ten to fifteen minutes should be enough for the preparation time.


Following the presentations some points could be made about the type of situations shown. Some links could also be made to the larger-scale problem of blaming in the national or global context. Group members themselves should be encouraged to do this.


Inter-linking discussion


Text Box:  Some questions could be asked:


Which groups of people are most likely to be blamed for problems in this locality/region/country/other countries?


What might be the consequences of constant blaming?


This could be done in the form of a brainstorm. All answers are written down on a board or sheets, without discussion. Alternatively, it could be done in the form of an open discussion in the large group or smaller ones.


A poster or image - such as 'Us and Them' - could be shown for pair or small group or large group discussion.


Activity 2: The story of blame


Pairs should be formed and given five or ten minutes to prepare a one minute story, to be told to the rest of the group. The story should describe a situation in which someone or some people are blamed for something. It should focus mostly on the consequences of the blaming. A sheet of images like the Sheet of Blame, from the Federation Youth Department pack: 'What have 1 done to deserve this?', as clues to the type of consequences that could result, may also be given out at this time.


Each pair should be allowed to make their presentation of their story in turn. Time should be available for all pairs to do their one minute. Some pairs may wish to dramatize their stories.


Afterwards, some points could be made about the types of consequences illustrated by the stories.


Conclusion


These two activities could open the way for some further exploration about the treatment of minority groups and the roots of conflict. Images like 'Us and Them' could be used to stimulate further discussion.




21. CAR PARK


Introduction


This exercise is designed to explore the ways in which prejudice affects our options in everyday life. In this context it addresses issues specifically related to HIV infection and sexual orientation.


Methods


In a large room or car park (hence the title) ask participants to line up, and give each participant a card on which is written one of the following roles. They are not to disclose this until the end of the exercise.


- a gay man who is HIV antibody positive

- a gay man with AIDS

- a 34 year old male white wealthy occasional cocaine user

- a 32 year old white female prostitute who is HIV antibody positive

- a heterosexual married man

- a heterosexual married woman

- a 24 year old black female prostitute

- a lesbian

- a pregnant HIV antibody positive woman

- a pregnant woman

- an IRV antibody positive bisexual married man

- a single woman with AIDS


When they are lined up and in role, read out each of the following questions explaining that if they can answer "yes" to that question they are to take one step forward. If "no" they are to remain where they are. They must answer "yes" or no.


Suggested questions


Are you able to:


join a health insurance scheme?

become a political candidate?

obtain life insurance?

expect sympathy from your doctor when you are ill?

lead an active social life?

adopt a child?

go abroad on holiday?

work abroad?

obtain a loan to buy a house?

expect fair treatment from the police?

work in a children's nursery?

have the sex you want when you want it?

kiss your lover in public?

plan 20 years ahead?

get medical help when you need it?

feel safe walking the streets after dark?

get support from society?

get free condoms if you want them?

have a home help if you need one?

expect sympathy from your family?

be honest with your colleagues?

have security in your employments plan a family?

get dental care when you want it?

marry your partner?

expect to die where and as you would like?



Stay in role and in place. One by one ask participants to disclose the role they had assumed and to talk about how they felt. About themselves and about the people in front of, and behind, them. You may also ask if there were any particular questions which struck them or made them feel something in particular.


Allow some time to de-role (see Communication without words) and then, back in seats, open to a broader discussion. The following could be discussed:


How different people react to similar circumstances and why.


The restrictions imposed on them by those roles defined in terms of sexual orientation and HIV infection.


What they have learned about the restrictions imposed on individuals by sexual orientation and HIV infection.


Conclusion


This can be a powerful awareness-raising exercise on disadvantage and discrimination. Variations are possible: the characters and questions can change according to the group and what you are trying to achieve. This one focuses on HIV/AIDS, it could focus more on racism or disability for example.











































22. CREATURES OF CONFLICT


Introduction:


The word conflict means many different things to different people.

This exercise will help to see what it means to people here.


The Exercise:


  1. Each person should be given a large (flipchart size) sheet of paper. Various paints, crayons, pens, pencils, newspapers, magazines, glue, etc, should be placed in the middle of the room.

  1. Encourage people to use their imagination, creativity, feelings to create an image of a creature that represents how they see conflict. It can be a real or imaginary creature. They should try not to think too much about it but just do something and see what happens. (They do not have to be artists and they will not have to show their creations to everyone).

  1. Once complete, form pairs. People can choose whether to show their creature to their partners or not. They should, however, discuss what images came to mind and what feelings it brought up for them. They can then go on to discuss what thoughts this leads them to have about conflict.

  1. Back in the large group, some general questions can be asked:

- How did it feel being asked to do the task?

- How did it feel doing it?

- How did it feel talking/sharing about it?

- How many had positive and negative elements in their creatures?

- What insights do you now have about conflict and yourself'.)


(People can show their creatures if they so wish).


  1. Show the group the other creatures and ask them whether they can see how each creature might say something about conflict. (This can also be done in pairs or maybe small groups of three or four people).

Conclusion


Some of the issues to raise include: the broad meaning of the word; personal and global conflict; positive as well as negative forms of conflict; how we each respond to conflict situations and what can reasonably be done in a conflict situation.


This exercise should precede an exercise looking at strategies for action. It should not stand alone.




















23. UNDERLYING ANGER


Introduction


A written exercise about what underlies anger. To encourage participants to consider and express what lay beneath an instance of personal anger.


Process


  1. Ask everyone to write down (in one sentence) a situation in their life where they felt really angry. For example: 'I felt angry when my contribution in a meeting was ignored.' (2 min).

  1. Explain that a layer of hurt very often underlies anger. Ask everyone to write a sentence about the hurt behind their anger in the instance they have thought of.

Example: 'I felt hurt because it seemed that nobody valued my opinion.' (2 min).


  1. The reason for the hurt is often an unmet need. Ask everyone to write a sentence covering their needs in the same instance. For example: 'I need to be accepted and valued by my colleagues.' (2 min).

  1. Alongside the need are often fears. Ask participants to think about what fears might have been behind their anger and write a sentence about them. For example: 'I have a fear that 1 won't be able to win my colleagues' respect.' (2 min).

  1. Participants turn to a partner and share their sentences with them. If anyone has had difficulty with the exercise, their partner can help them unravel their feelings. (10 min).

  1. Some questions can be posed afterwards: What is the value of understanding the substructure of anger? In what ways could it help you? How might communities or groups have the same sub-structure of anger? (15 min).

(Anger and hurt are often two sides of the same coin. It is an important step in facing the anger of others to know what lies beneath our own anger. This exercise is a way of discovering some of the hurt, needs and fears underlying a personal experience of extreme anger. If we can identify the fears that lie at the roots of anger, either our own or that of others, we can begin addressing those fears rather than remaining caught up in the outward emotion).


Conclusion


Exercises, like this one, that link personal reflection with broader issues can be a useful tool in developing some empathy for the situation of others as well as offering people a chance to look a little more deeply at some of the roots of conflict.



















24. STATES OF TENSION


Introduction


Individual, pair and group work exploring how situations are influenced by personal energy levels. To explore the range of energy levels any individual can utilize, and how these levels can change the way people respond to us. To look at ways of using the energy we have, and exploring levels that we find difficult to reach.


Process


  1. Introduce the purpose of this exercise and describe the six different levels of tension:

a.        SLOTH/COLLAPSE. A state of no energy, just about awake but unable to move or speak clearly.


b.       LAID BACK/VERY COOL. Using the least energy possible for the situation: slow speech and movement.


c.        EVERYDAY/ONE OF THE CROWD. A "normal" energy level: you wouldn't be noticed walking down the street - nothing unusual about you at all.


d.       BUSINESSLIKE/ORGANISED. Slightly un-relaxed, slight tension: going about a task that needs to be completed.


e.        WORRY/TENSION. Un-relaxed and tense, slight panic creeping in: things are not going according to plan.


f.         PANIC/HYPERACTIVITY. Growing into real panic - pulling out all the stops.


Ask each participant to explore for themselves what their idea of each level is. Using all the space, get the group to stand up and give them a specific task such as walking to the station to catch a train. Start from level a. and remind them of each level as you slowly take them through to f.


In groups of six or as the whole group, depending on confidence levels, ask two volunteers to role-play to the rest. The group decides what level of tension each character is at and gives them a situation in which to interact, such as standing in a queue hoping to get tickets. During the role-play, the group can freeze the actors and change the tension levels, then unfreeze them and observe what effect the change has.


In groups of six, the participants are given a line on a card - for example, "what do you think you are doing?" In turn they enter the space and say the line, each using a different energy level.


  1. Feedback and discussion: What moods came across using the same line six times? What effect could energy levels have on a specific situation? When are certain levels more appropriate than others?

Try to find out which levels people found easiest to use, and why they found certain levels difficult to reach or uncomfortable to use. Different people will have different ideas about each energy level and what it means to them. There are no rights or wrongs.


  1. This exercise can be developed further by considering, or acting out, how people's response may be different according to the energy level used. Small groups could be asked to prepare and show a situation where different energy levels produce different reactions and end results.

Conclusion


These states of tension are often noticed subconsciously by people and they can produce remarkably different effects. Any communication between people can be improved by some understanding of these forces.






25. UNDERSTANDING CONFLICT


A short introductory exercise to the theme of conflict, looking at some of the underlying causes; some of the positive and negative aspects and possible ways of reacting.


Introduction


This activity combines some imaginative elements with other more theoretical inputs as a way of getting a group to start understanding conflict, including some of the broad dynamics of conflict, whether on a personal or local level or on a group or international one.


Materials


Colored paper; envelopes; large sheets; scissors; tape; the Iceberg; little creatures and conflict statements. (The last three are included in the pack).


Process


  1. An-example should be given - or asked for from the group - of how an individual conflict can escalate from very small beginnings. It should show how silent dislike, lack of understanding or disrespect can gradually develop, from ignoring someone, to talking about them or arguing with them, to physical attack, to drawing others in on either side, to solid, set attitudes and behavior. An imaginary example could start from somebody disliking someone based on the clothes they wear or the color of their hair.

  1. The Iceberg of conflict should be shown. The iceberg represents the fact that for every incident of conflict the causes are often hidden beneath the surface. The group should be asked what the causes might be. A list including the following will probably result: anger, hurt, fear, lack of knowledge, jealousy, etc. some explanation should be given that only if the things beneath the surface are looked at will there be a real chance of resolving the conflict.

  1. An envelope should be given to each person. It should contain: one sheet of colored paper; one of the thirteen little creatures (these should be used in pairs - if there are 12 participants, six creatures should be used; if there are 30 participants, all thirteen should be used and four extra ones) and Statements 1 and 2 in two different languages (the mother tongue of, and languages commonly used by, the participants should not be used). People are asked not to open the envelope until all the instructions have been given. At least two spare envelopes should be casually placed on the front table.

  1. The three tasks are explained. These are:

a)          to create a shape with the piece of paper (by cutting, folding, tearing, drawing etc) that says something about one of the things that are beneath the surface of conflict. This should then be attached to a sheet on the wall;


b)          to choose Statement 1 or--2 and sign your name under 1 or 2 on a sheet with these numbers written on the wall;


c)          to look at your little creature and think what it says to you about conflict. Then to find the other one or two people with the same creature and explain to them your thinking about it.


  1. Then the three rules are explained. They are:

a)          there is to be no talking, in any language, at any time, during the exercise;


b)          all three tasks must be completed in ten minutes;


c)          everybody in the room must take part.


  1. Ten minutes should be allowed for the exercise. You will need to time it and ensure that the rules are kept. Please note that task 2 will prove difficult because nobody has the statements in their own language and task 3 because they must find ' their partner(s) and explain their thinking without talking. Watch carefully how people react and behave.

  1. At the end of the time, ask each person in turn to come and show their shape and in one sentence explain its meaning for them. Then show Statements 1 and 2 in their own language(s) - and explain their meaning, if necessary - and ask why people signed for each. (You could also comment on whether people looked at the Statements of others or shared them or just struggled on their own. Also, ask whether anyone thought of looking in one of the extra envelopes at the front? Remind them that there were only three rules - nothing said they couldn't look at each others statements or in the spare envelopes!). Finally, ask whether people were able to understand their partner(s) explanation of the creature and whether it was easy or hard to connect it with conflict and explain it without words?

  1. Ask for some reflections on the exercise and make some yourself. These could include comments on the variety of shapes (and reasons for them). The ease - or not of communicating without words. The feelings associated with not understanding words/statements/tasks. The usefulness of using imaginative processes as well as more rational ones. Whether any positive aspects of conflict emerged. If any ways of reacting to conflict were highlighted. A broader discussion on some of these issues could follow.

Conclusion


Many issues could be raised here that could be developed further, especially in the areas of

conflict prevention or conflict resolution.







































26. IMAGES OF WAR


Introduction


An activity to stimulate thinking and discussion about some of the things that could happen in a war situation and some of the ways an individual or an organization can react to them.


Process


Have a selection of pictures or photographs, like the ones shown here or others that you have gathered, ready to use to trigger some thoughts. Either ask people to form pairs or trio's and give each group some different images to look at and discuss. Alternatively, you could use the Silent Discussion technique explained earlier, this time with people working silently in small groups or allowing people to move around the room looking at five or six images and discussion sheets.


Whichever option you choose, ask people to consider some of the following questions:


What is happening in the image?

What do you think happened before?

What do you think should happen now?

Imagine yourself in the situation of one of the characters involved, what might your feelings and thoughts be?

What might an individual or an organization be able to do to ensure fair treatment?


Other questions could be raised depending on the image, the group and the nature of the issues you are trying to deal with.


After some time in pairs or small groups ask each group to explain something of their image and their thinking to the rest of the group. (They should have been told at the start that they would be asked to do this). They can do this by description, story, writing on a board or something more dramatic or creative. The choice is theirs.


A broader discussion on the issues raised can follow.


This could lead into getting people to consider what rules or regulations might be helpful in this situation. This should not be a test of their knowledge of what already exists but should arise from the discussions that have already taken place.


Conclusion

An activity like this has the advantage of allowing people to connect themselves with a situation or some individuals before investigating legalities and rules. If they come to see that legalities and rules might be necessary, and even come to start thinking what they might be for themselves, before learning which rules already exist, then they will feel far more connection with, and interest in, them.




















27. BOXING MATCH


Introduction


A variation on the Four Corners activity, to stimulate discussion on specific issues.


Process


Write each of the four roles of characters, concerned with Boxing, on flipchart sheets and place one in each corner.

The four are:

Referee

Second (man who mops the brow of the boxer between rounds)

Cleaner (who washes and cleans the ring afterwards)

Anti-boxing agitator


Explain the roles to the group in simple terms if necessary. Ask everyone to stand in the middle of the room. Then ask them which of these four characters most represents the role they think the Red Cross should take in a time of conflict. Although elements of all four may seem relevant, they must opt for one of the four as the most appropriate. Nobody can stand in the middle or hover between positions. They must make a decision.


When everyone has selected their corner, ask them to form pairs, preferably with someone from another corner, though if this not possible, someone from their own corner. Get them to discuss with their partner why they think their choice of role to be most appropriate. Mey can also consider why others may have opted for their corner, but should focus on their own decision).


It is possible, back as a whole group, then to ask one representative from each corner to explain briefly their choice to others. Further discussion at this time is also possible.


This trigger to thinking on the issue can be followed by supplementary statements being read following the usual Four Corners format. (his has as the four choices: Agree strongly; Agree a little; Disagree a little and Disagree strongly). A variety of statements can be used on the theme of the role of the Red Cross. However it is suggested that four to six statements are more than enough for a session.


Other statements could be:


The Movement should much more actively try to prevent wars and disasters as well as react to them.

The ICRC should go public if it knows horrific war crimes are being committed and nobody else knows about them.

The ICRC should speak out to get prisoners released if it feels they were wrongly imprisoned.

The ICRC should concern itself with conflicts and leave the Federation and National Societies to do disaster and development work.

The public should be made aware of the differences between the ICRC, Federation and National Societies and not to be allowed to think of the Movement as one.

The most important work of the ICRC is promoting the rules of war (i.e. Geneva Conventions, Protocols, emblem protection etc) more than any of its other actions (tracing, messages, visiting and relief).

The ICRC - and the whole Movement - must change according to needs and circumstances or the times, or it will become a relic of the past.


The statements can, of course, be on any topic or range of topics and should be adapted for the particular group that you are working with.



Conclusion

The Boxing Match analogy adds another - creative and imaginative - element to this exercise. Some further reflection on the usefulness of thinking more creatively about issues or the appropriateness of the boxing analogy specifically could also take place.

28. SCARECROW


Have an image of a Scarecrow for all to see.


Translate into other languages to have a collection of words describing the Scarecrow.


Some cultures may not have scarecrows, so some explanation will need to be given of its basic function.


Individuals are asked to consider what comes to mind for them when they see a scarecrow. They should then broaden and think how it could be linked to humanitarian education work.


Each person should take small cards with the letters of SCARECROW printed on them (or the word in their own language). They should then split the letters up and find words, starting with each letter, that describe important elements of the work of the Movement or of humanitarian education work in general.


Form pairs to discuss their images and thoughts and explain their words.


Some sharing of this could then take place in the big group, maybe putting words on paper on the wall. This should bring out points about the essential elements of humanitarian education work and/or the work of the Movement.


Variations are possible:


a)          Another creature, not a Scarecrow, could be chosen. Examples could be: Owl; Phoenix; Teddy Bear; Dove; Lioness, etc.

b)          The topic they are asked to think about could be one of many. For example: conflict; knowledge; prevention; rights and responsibilities; the world etc.

























29. CHANGE


Introduction


An exercise that provides a short, active demonstration of the effects of change on people.


Methods


  1. Ask people to form pairs. They should put down papers, pens etc and move to an open space. They are told to stand opposite each other to look at the other person and notice things about them.

  1. They are told to turn back to back, so that they cannot see their partner. They are asked to change five things about their appearance. Allow enough time for all individuals to complete this.

  1. Each person turns back to their partner and has to discover the five things the other person changed.

  1. Once complete, ask people to turn back to back again in the same pairs and to change five more things about their appearance. Allow enough time for each person.

  1. They then turn to face each other again and discover what their partner changed.

  1. Once complete, ask people to turn back to back again in the same pairs and to change five more things about their appearance.

  1. Stop the exercise and tell them that you were only joking about changing yet again! Allow everyone to return to normal and their seats.

Follow up


Tell people - if it is true, and it usually is - that they demonstrated within the exercise the seven dynamics of change. So called, from a 1970's psychological/sociological study. These state that in any circumstance where people are required to change (whether in their personal life or within an organization) they will go through seven reactions. Some people will, of course, react more strongly to some parts than others. They also won't necessarily happen in any order.


The seven dynamics are:


1. People will feel awkward, ill-at-ease and self-conscious;


2. People will think about what they have to give up (more than they will about what they might gain);


3. People will feel alone even if everyone else is going through. the same change;


4. People will be concerned that they don't have enough resources (time, money, skill, etc);


5. People are at different levels of readiness for change;


6. Too much change at once and people will rebel or give up;


7. Take the pressure off, and people will revert back to old behavior.


Further Development


In pairs or small groups, people could be encouraged to think about their own "patterns' of reacting to change. This might simply be to recognize their own behavior. It might also be to develop strategies for developing alternatives.

People could be encouraged to think about their own organization or group and consider how people may be reacting in these ways. Strategies could be developed that could help people to manage change.

Discussions could take place on other exercises that get across complex processes in simple, light-hearted and active ways. These could be demonstrated or developed.

30. STOP! LETS START AGAIN!


Introduction


An activity that recreates some situations from real life and explores how we see things from different perspectives. It then goes on to look at how some changes of behavior could completely change the end result.


Process


This exercise can either be done in small groups or in one big group. Three or four people should be asked - maybe in advance - to make up a short, simple sketch (or play) of a situation from their own experience to show something of the way people who are different, are treated. (Alternatively, you can suggest in some way the situation, though not the exact words and actions, and then they can create from there).


The sketch should be presented to the others in the group. It should only take a minute or two. Then it stops and you, or somebody in the group, says that we can start again if you did not like the words or actions in the situation of some of the characters. A member from the audience can volunteer to take the place of one of the actors. (Only one should change at this time). The same situation is then re-played with some changes by the new actor.


After this another person can volunteer to take the place of an actor. After a few times it is possible to change two or three actors at the same time. The situation however needs to remain the same.


At. one point you, or someone else, can add one small change to the situation. The sketch then has to be played with this change.


After a certain amount of time or after enthusiasm fades away, stop the play and open to a general discussion. The following questions may be helpful:


Were there changes to the end result each time? If so, what do you think happened to cause that?


Did any particular behaviors change events?


How do you think each character behaved?


Would you have behaved like that in this situation?


Are there any learning points from this about individual perspectives; the way people inter-act or anything else?


Variations are, of course, possible. A brief sketch can be presented first, with one or two changes and then one from the lives of the participants developed. Small groups could develop their own sketches and present them to the other groups, who become the audience. A particular topic could be stressed. Topics outside the experience of the participants could be used. Many other adaptations are possible.


Conclusion


This type of drama or theatre, developed from the ideas of the Argentinean Augusto Boal, originated from a desire to show the behavior of the oppressed and the oppressors. It is, therefore, very suitable for work on any topic connected with the vulnerable or accepting difference. It can really help people to start viewing things from the perspective of others and to encourage them to look at the effects of their own actions.




31. TAKING A STAND - ROLE PLAYS


Purpose:


To make young people more aware of instances in daily life in which children's rights may need to be defended; to encourage young people to practice the skills of standing up for their own rights, arid the rights of others.


Materials:


Copies of the Taking a Stand role cards


Procedure:


Step 1: Have young people form groups of six. Assign each group to one of the three role-play scenarios.


Step 2: Within each group of six, three people receive the Role A card to read, and three receive the Role B card (from the same scenario). As and B's read over their cards separately, discussing the situation and what the character described might do and say.


Step 3: Have young people select someone from their group of three to play the role described. The chosen actor may request one or both of the remaining members of the group to play a 'supporting' role, d necessary.


Step 4: Each scenario is acted out. one at a time, for the entire group to see.


Step 5: After each role-play, discuss with the wide group:


(For the person whose role was to deny a child's rights) What was easy or difficult about your role?

(For the person whose role was to defend the child's rights) What was easy or difficult about your role?

What ways of defending rights seemed to work best?

Were any strategies used that did not seem to work very well?

Have you ever encountered situations like these in your own life?

In real life, would it be possible to stand up for your rights as in the role-play?

Was it easier to defend your own rights, or those of someone else?


Variation:


Young people can be asked to write their own role-play situations relevant to their own lives. Be aware that some situations of rights denials which young people may be familiar with will be too sensitive to discuss or role-play in a group (for example sexual abuse or torture).


Follow-up:


When planning an action project, role-plays can be used to practice how young people might respond to opposition to their project.


Role Play Scenario No. 1: The Computer Class


Role A:


You are the director of a youth group that has program for boys and girls. You have arranged to bring a group of young people to a six-session class on using computers at a local college.


Everyone in the youth group is very excited about the class, and wants to go. The college has only five computers available, so only five youth group members can go. You must decide who goes.


You feet that boys should be given first chance to go to this class. In your community, few teenage boys have jobs. The boys who come to your youth group need skills that will help them get jobs. This course would give them both skills and self-confidence.


You know that some girls are interested in learning about computers, too.


But girls in your community are far more likely to get married while in their teens, have children, and work in the home. Besides, some of the parents might feel that using computers is not the kind of work girls should do. Maybe in the future you could organize a computer class for girls.


Role B:


You are a member of a youth group that has program for boys and girls. Five members of the group will have the chance to go to a computer class at a local college. Everyone is excited about the course. It is difficult for teenagers to find jobs in your city, and having a special skill would be a big help.


You have just found out that the director of the youth group is going to let boys sign up for the class first. You think this is unfair. Both boys and girls need job skills to be able to support themselves and their families. While most of the people who work with computers in your community are men, more and more women are doing this type of work. Unless girls get the same training as boys, they will never have an equal chance of getting jobs that pay well.


Note:


Role B may be played by either a girl or a boy.


Role Play Scenario No. 2: Differences


Role A:


You are a student at a secondary school. Recently, some students from another country have enrolled at your school. They speak a different language from the language of your country. They have a different religion, and sometimes miss school because of their religious holidays.


You don't like these students. Their customs seem strange to you. You think that if they want to live in your country, they should try to be like everyone else here.


You especially don't like it when they sit together at lunch and speak their own language. You can't understand them and you think that they might be talking about you.


You try to get some of your friends to make these students sit separately at lunch; you want them to join you in teasing these students about the way they speak, and telling them they should go back to where they came from.


Role B:


You are a student at a secondary school. Recently, some students from another country have enrolled at your school. They speak a different language from the language of your country. They have a different religion, and sometimes miss school because of their religious holidays.


You would like to get to know these students, to learn about their country, and maybe even to learn a few words of their language. But one of your friends wants you to join in teasing them, interrupting them when they are eating lunch, and telling them to leave the country.


You want to get your friend to stop acting this way. You don't want to spoil the friendship, but you think that the teasing isn't fair. You think that it is interesting to have students from another country at your school, and you would like to find a way to become friends with them.


Role Play No. 3: Selling Drugs


Role A:


You are a drug dealer. You are trying to convince a teenager to sell drugs for you. You explain to this person that you will give him a certain amount of drugs to sell each day, and at the end of the day, he is to bring you all the money. You will then give him a percentage of the profit. You will also give him drugs to use from time to time.


Let this person know that you have asked him because you feel he is honest and will not run away with the money. Remind him how difficult it is for young people to find jobs in this poor neighborhood. The amount of money to be made selling drugs is far more than he could make by working at a low-paying job, even d one could be found. Get him to think about the things that he could buy with the extra money, or how he could help to support the family with the money made from selling drugs.


Promise this person that you will protect him from other drug dealers in the area, and from the police.


Role B:


You are 16 years old. A drug dealer is trying to convince you to work for her selling drugs to other young people in your neighborhood. You need the money, but you don't want to start using drugs or selling them. You have learned about how dangerous they are for your health. You also know of people who have been lolled in arguments over drug deals.


You want to say no to this drug dealer, and get away from her as quickly as possible. But you are also afraid of what her reaction will be if you say no. You are afraid that she might get angry, threaten you, or hurt you in some way. either now or later.


You are also worried about what your friends will say or do if you refuse to sell drugs. Some of them already work for this drug dealer. Even if you can get out of this situation right now, you are afraid and might need protection in the future.







































32. THE NINE YEAR OLD CAROUSEL


Introduction


An activity to get people to consider how they can explain difficult concepts to younger people. The exercise also allows for one to one communication with a large number of different people in a short space of time.


Process


  1. Chairs should be placed in two circles facing each other. An inner circle facing outward and an outer circle facing inward. People should sit facing opposite another person. Each pair should not be too close to the others, so that they can concentrate on their partner and not on other people. If there is an odd number of people one chair is put slightly outside the circle for a person to sit on.

  1. The inner circle people are told that they are to be nine year olds. The outer circle are themselves. They are told that they will move around, so they will not only speak to the person opposite them now. They will have two minutes each time to speak to someone.

  1. Each time the inner circle 'child' will ask the older person to explain something to them. You will call out the question each time. The questions can vary according to the topic you are working on and the age and level of the group. The following are some suggestions:

Why do people fight and kill each other?

What is racism?

Why does it say 'Blacks go home' on the wall?

Why is that man kissing another man?

Are gypsies really dirty and dangerous?

Why won't my parents let me have a toy gun?

Are we better than those other 'people') (or the name of a group could be given).

Why are girls different to boys?

That strange boy hates me! I don't understand why.

I wish I could be like you. Will you help me to be?

My sister says drug addicts are sick and we should feel sorry for them. Is that right?

Why does everybody say (name a group) are our enemies?


  1. After each question and two minute conversation the people on the outside are asked to stand and move to the right. Then they do the second question there. After five or six questions like this, ask the inner and outer people to swap places. The outer ones move inside and become the nine year olds. Another five or six questions, with changes of place, should take place.

  1. For the last one or two question ask the inner circle 'child' to make up their own questions to get an answer. By this stage they have an idea of the game and the type of questions. Ten to twelve questions altogether are probably enough.

  1. At the end ask people generally whether it was easy - in the outer circle - to answer the questions? And if they censored anything? Also, ask if it was possible - in the inner circle - to understand? Then ask people to consider what sort of answers children usually receive to these kind of questions and what the effects of that are? Some general discussion on what we - as individuals and society - might do about that, could take place.

  1. Variations are possible. It could be five or seven or twelve year olds instead. All questions could be on one topic. Only one question could be given to start the carousel and then inner circle 'children' think of their own questions.

Conclusion


This exercise can be good as a starting point to consider the complexity of some issues or it can also be useful near the end, especially if people are planning to spread their ideas further, by conversations or peer education or other kinds of action. It is a very useful way of showing the strong influence of messages received in childhood - from family, media, friends, stories, heroes etc.


33. THE FIVE SENSES


Introduction


An activity that gives the whole group, or smaller parts of it, the responsibility to design, and arry out, an activity.


Process


  1. Explain the five (physical) senses: seeing, hearing, touching, smelling and speaking. Describe also that although most of us have these five senses, not everybody does. Continue with these questions:

Do you see what I see?

Do you hear what I hear?

Do you say what I say?

Do you smell what 1 smell?

Do you feel what I feel?


Make the point that not everybody who hears something hears the same as their neighbor for a variety of reasons. (Don't however, explain the reasons).


  1. Split the group into five smaller groups. Give each of them one of the senses and the corresponding question. Ask them to design two short activities, which they will demonstrate on the rest of the groups. The first should be about being without their physical sense. The second should get people to consider how others may perceive things and react in different ways. For example, hearing something quite different to their neighbor.

The activities should be short and creative. Give all groups a set amount of time to prepare. It may also be a good idea to give them a time limit for their two activities. Perhaps thirty minutes or less, depending on your group and your time constraints.


  1. The activities by each group can be followed by some discussion on what they learned: in the preparation and demonstration on their sense; from the other groups on their senses; about themselves and working in groups and generally about how different people or groups of people experience the world in different ways.

Conclusion


Variations, like choosing a different topic to prepare the activities on or only asking for one activity to be developed, are possible. The advantage of this topic is that it can clearly draw out some issues of understanding, and accepting, that people's perspectives can vary for a multitude of reasons. The advantage of the method is that people learn this by doing and experiencing, rather than. being told. Some will be more involved than others, but this practically demonstrates that the same situation will produce different reactions on different people for different reasons. The activity mirrors itself!

















34. ANALYSIS AND PLANNING


Introduction


There are many different ways of getting individuals, groups or organizations to assess their current situation in order that future plans can be made which are realistic and, therefore, achievable. The S.W.O.T. Analysis is one such method.


Content

S.W.O.T. stands for:


Strengths

Weaknesses

Opportunities

Threats


It can be used by individuals to consider their professional or personal situation especially at points of crisis or decision. Similarly, groups of people, whether social, community, temporary or work based can explore their position. It can likewise be used within organizations to assess circumstances and assist in future planning.


Method


Even when used with groups or organizations, ideally the analysis should first be done by individuals.


  1. Each person is asked to think about or write or give visual or physical expression to the four aspects of the analysis. This could he done based on their individual S.W.O.T.'s or those they see affecting the group or organization. (It is possible, of course, to consider both).

  1. Then get people in pairs or small groups to share their thoughts and feelings on this, trying to spend an equal amount of time on each of the four aspects. It should also be timed so that each person has a fair share of the time available.

  1. Large group discussion should then take place with all pairs or small groups sharing their perspectives. This should be on the S.W.O.T.'s affecting the group or organization, rather than those of the individual.

  1. Either at this point or later, after some other work has taken place, this S.W.O.T. Analysis can form a useful base on which to build strategies for future development.

Conclusion


This is a good method for really getting people to think about themselves and what they can achieve and what they may need to help them. Groups and organizations can similarly benefit from this.



















35. THE PLANNING TREE


Introduction


To help people anticipate the consequences, both positive and negative, of potential action projects.


Process


You will need a large sheet of paper and pens for each group of four; blue, green and yellow cards, glue.


Explain to the group that carrying out an action project can have many consequences, both positive and negative, on a number of different groups of people. They are about to create a "Planning Tree" to look more closely at those consequences. A tree diagram is used because the impact of a project can grow in many directions, like the branches of a tree.


Form working groups of four. Ask each group to select one possible action project that they would like to consider carrying out.


On the large paper, have the groups sketch the trunk of a tree. On the tree-trunk, they write a few words summarizing the action project they are going to consider.


Next, brainstorm a list of all the possible 'impact groups' - people who might be affected by this project. These could include:


children business people

parents religious leaders

teachers local media producers

elected officials health care personnel

police social workers


Have them select the four impact groups that they feel would be most significantly affected by this project. They draw four short branches radiating from the trunk of their tree, and write the name of one of these groups on each branch.


Give each working group twelve green cards. Ask them to focus on one impact group at a time and think of at least one, or as many as three. immediate consequences of the action project for that group. Stress that the consequences can be either positive, negative or neutral. When this is done, the cards should be placed on the paper at the end of the appropriate branch.


Then distribute a number of blue cards to each group. Tell them to look at each immediate consequence (the green cards) and decide on at least one secondary consequence that would arise from it. Each secondary consequence should be written on a blue card. The blue cards are then laid on the paper with a branching line connecting them to the corresponding green cards.


Once this is done, distribute the yellow cards. These represent third order consequences. Have the young people follow the same procedure, this time looking at each blue card, deciding on a third order consequence that could arise from it, and laying it on the planning tree with a branching connecting it to a blue card.


Give the working groups time for reflection and discussion on their planning trees. They may stick down their cards with glue if each group member is satisfied with the arrangement. They may draw dotted lines between consequences from different branches that seem to be related to each other.


Allow people to move around the room to look at all the planning trees.


Finally, open up for general discussion if you feel that useful points could be made about some of the things shown. Sometimes however, the work in the small groups and the observation of the other trees is enough by itself.


Variations are possible. Small groups can be assigned only one branch of the tree (parents, teachers, health personnel, elected officials, etc.) to work on. Groups can then combine their work to make one large collaborative planning tree. The number of branches of the tree need not be limited to four. If cards are in short supply, they can simply draw the consequences onto the large paper. The planning tree can extend indefinitely, beyond three levels of consequences.


Conclusion


A Planning Tree is a complex activity to describe and carry out. Its value is in getting people to consider what may happen with their plans, so that they are prepared and may already have planned some strategies for dealing with the situation. It can help ensure that idealistic ideas have a practical and realistic root.




36. ZOOM - A CREATIVITY GAME


  1. Divide the participants into two or more teams of three to seven members each.

  1. Ask each team to identify an opportunity or a problem. Ask them to convert this opportunity or problem into a question, using the format suggested by Van Gundy: In what ways might we . . . ?

Give an example to illustrate the task. Here's one that I use: In what ways might we sell books to professionals on the internet?


  1. Ask the team to transform this question into four higher levels of abstraction, one level at a time. Give an example such as this:

Original question: In what ways might we sell books to professionals on the Internet?


Question at the next higher level: In what ways might we sell books on the Internet?


Question at the next higher level: In what ways might we sell things on the Internet?


Question at the next higher level: In what ways might we sell things?


Question at the next higher level: In what ways might we persuade and influence the others?


  1. Distribute five index cards and a rubber band to each team. Ask the teams to write their five questions, one on each card.

Then ask them to put the question cards on top of each other, with the question sides on top. The most abstract question should be visible on the top card and the other questions should be hidden below. The most specific question (the original question) should be at the bottom of this packet of question cards.


  1. Ask the teams to place a rubber band around the packet of question cards, give the packet to another team and receive a packet from yet another team. (No two teams may exchange their packets with one another.)

  1. Ask the teams to read the question on the top card and spend 3 minutes brainstorming alternative responses. The team should record its answers on a flip chart or a piece of paper.

  1. After 3 minutes, ask the teams to remove the top card and to read the question on the next card. As before, team members should brainstorm alternative responses for this question for the next 3 minutes, building on the earlier responses.

  1. At the end of 3 minutes, ask the teams to read and respond to the question on the next card. Repeat this procedure two more times to end with responses to the most specific form of the question.

  1. Ask the teams to return their packet of question cards along with the lists of brainstormed responses to the appropriate teams. The teams should review the responses, select the most useful ideas, and integrate them into an action plan.

(ZOOM is one of the games from Thiagi's forthcoming book, More Creativity Games. You will find a model for the creativity process and several games for profiting from opportunities and solving problems in Thiagi's earlier book, Creativity Games.)




Document Info


Accesari: 1558
Apreciat: hand-up

Comenteaza documentul:

Nu esti inregistrat
Trebuie sa fii utilizator inregistrat pentru a putea comenta


Creaza cont nou

A fost util?

Daca documentul a fost util si crezi ca merita
sa adaugi un link catre el la tine in site


in pagina web a site-ului tau.




eCoduri.com - coduri postale, contabile, CAEN sau bancare

Politica de confidentialitate | Termenii si conditii de utilizare




Copyright © Contact (SCRIGROUP Int. 2024 )